• Margaret Rodeghier - The Grosse Pointe Doula

Postpartum Mood Disorders in Metro Detroit, MI


As many as 15-20% of women in the United States report suffering from some type of Postpartum Mood Disorder (PPMD). PPMDs vary from the Baby blues, Postpartum Depression (PPD), Postpartum Anxiety (PPA), Postpartum OCD (PPOCD), and all the way to Postpartum Psychosis (PPP). It is unknown how many cases go unreported but it is suspected that rates could be as high as 30%.

Having just completed a continuing education course on Perinatal Depression, I thought it was important to highlight these struggles that SO many women face. I also wanted to highlight this topic because I suffered from PPD and PPA after my daughter, and PPD after my son.

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My Story

When I was pregnant with my daughter, I was SO in love with her in my growing belly. I loved feeling every movement. I bought all the baby things, and she was all I wanted to talk about. Then I had her. It was very difficult to bond. Breastfeeding was very difficult. I cried a lot and stayed in bed a lot. My husband was starting a new career to support our family and was gone for 15-16 hours a day at a time, often for 6 days a week. I would forget when I last ate or showered last. I didn't want to leave the house. Then I became afraid to leave. Afraid of being in a car accident, my daughter getting kidnapped, someone seeing the thoughts in my head and thinking I was a bad parent (I already thought that every moment of every day in my own mind, despite every one telling me how wonderful of a mother I was). Then, I was afraid of even being in my house with her. I thought if I carried her up the stairs, that I would slip and fall and accidentally hurt her, or even worse, she would die. I was afraid to have her in a different room as me in case someone saw in the window and thought I left her alone and would call CPS. Looking back on it, I wish I recognized it sooner. I struggled for the first 15 months of her life. My marriage struggled for the first 15 months of her life. I constantly nit picked with my husband. I was always mad and yelling. I isolated myself. I tried talking to my OB about my PPD and PPA, but he told me I was fine and it would go away by itself. So I waited....and waited....and waited.... until it finally did - at 15 months postpartum when. I didn't know there was anything else I could do. I wish I knew because I could have gotten rid of it much faster. Let me tell you what I looked like on the outside though: I took a million and one smiling pictures of us, I took her for walks, I used nice baby carriers, I breastfed, I donated breastmilk, I made her own baby food, I used cloth diapers, and was a very passionate mother. A lot of people thought I was an inspirational mom. Not many knew what I was really struggling with. I barely knew.

When I was pregnant with my son, I fully expected to experience PPD again. I was educated on it now, and knew I was at very high risk for it. So I set up my support system beforehand, I encapsulated my placenta, had doctor's phone numbers, support group names, and my husband realized that our first 15 months of parenthood was not normal and knew what to look out for now. This time it waited until my son was 7 months old to hit. I reached out to my support system, I admitted it to my husband, I called therapists, I took my capsules, and I forced myself out of the house. My husband forced me out of the house. I took a break from work. I focused on myself. I used Reiki, Yoga, as well as emotional support and acknowledgment. I was fully prepared to accept medication if these methods didn't work. Yes, there ARE medications you can take while breastfeeding that are safe! To get a list, you can contact Dr. Hale's Infant Risk hotline at (806) 352-2519, Thankfully, with being proactive, my hormones seemed to settle and I began to reach normal again. I now have less and less depressed days, and more happy days. And I do not hesitate to reach out for help now when I need it.

Postpartum Depression and Anxiety does not mean you're a bad parent. You need to take care of yourself in order to be able to take care of someone else at your full potential. Do not be afraid to reach out!

Personal Struggles and Solutions

Meet Monique

"I'm alone in the house with a fussy crying baby and I'm crying right along with her. At first we thought it was just the "baby blues", that this would pass and I would get out of this funk. But as days went on I felt more overwhelmed and much less happy than I had ever anticipated my first month home with baby would be.

Then came the excuses, the explanations: I'm just sleep deprived, I am not eating enough, maybe I just plain suck at being a mother! That last one is the one that I clung onto. And when my husband got home from work everyday he would hear about it. About how things just weren't clicking and how hard everyday was. How tired I was and how I didn't want to do anything. How I wanted to go back to work at a minimum wage job because I clearly was not cut out for this whole mommy thing. And he started to get it. My husband stepped up the help and the support. He told me I was a good mother while I stood crying holding my baby several nights a week, he held the baby while I slammed doors and threw fits.

Maybe I wasn't getting out enough. So when he could actually convince me to see other people I saw friends or left the house and I felt okay for a little while, sometimes, but then the feeling just kept coming back. And soon I started lashing out at Nick and that's when we knew it wasn't just a "funk" something was really wrong. But I kept denying it. Because I didn't want it to be true, because I was ashamed of how I felt. Because I felt guilty for not being able to shake this awful feeling, in spite of being absolutely blessed with Arya. I was so grateful for her but I spent a lot of my time thinking, "why did I have this baby?" and thinking about how selfish I was for bringing her into this world when clearly I wasn't doing anything but screwing her up!

Then I started to think that her world might be a better place if I wasn't in it... And then I got it.I had full blown postpartum depression (PPD) and I couldn't have felt any more ashamed of myself. I felt like it was my fault"

**To read the rest of Monique's Story check out her story here: Shame

Meet Kristin

"My experience going through PPD was an experience I thought that I would never go through. I honestly did not think that postpartum depression was a real thing and I never wanted to acknowledge that I was goinging through it .... The moment that I realized that I had depression was when I was going through so many symptoms of up-and-down anger. I had this one moment where I was so mad that I knew I had to put my baby down in her crib because she was crying. I started having these horrible thoughts. I remember walking away from her, shutting the door, going to my bedroom, and just staring at the window thinking about 'what is going on in my life now?'. It was a horrible, scary, moment and I knew right then that I needed help.

I felt unhappy then happy, sad then mad. I felt angry at my child, but I couldn't figure out why. Every day I wondered why. Why is this what I keep thinking? Why did I feel like this? Especially when I have this amazing blessing of a child in my life. I wouldn't eat and I couldn't sleep. It was quite an experience that scared me so bad and it took me six months to realize what I was going through. Finally, my mom spoke up and told me to go get help. I went to support groups, I would I posted on Facebook, I talked to other moms, and the overwhelming support I had, even from strangers that were new moms was amazing!! My words of wisdom to those who are going through it: know that there is a light! A light of where you're going to feel that happiness and that fulfillment of being a mom. You're not alone and this will end! It will! You just have to acknowledge it. Don't be scared to say you have postpartum depression. Please know that we are all here to support one another!"

Signs and Symptoms:

(Information provided by www.MotherBabyUniversity.com, iocdf.org and postpartum.net)

Baby Blues:

Often experienced in the first 3-14 days after birth. Baby blues affects as many as 60-80% of women.

Symptoms of the "baby blues" include:

  • Feeling overwhelmed

  • Irritability and restlessness

  • Frustration

  • Anxiety

  • Sudden mood changes - from excited one minute to crying the next

  • Feeling weepy and crying without any apparent reason

  • Exhaustion

  • Trouble falling or staying asleep

  • Loss of appetite

With adequate in-home support, as well as being allowed more sleep by a support person, symptoms typically will go away within 2 weeks.

Postpartum Depression:

These can be in the first year after giving birth. Approximately 15-20% of women report having Postpartum Depression. PPD can be defined as Major or Minor. Major is a clinical diagnosis with defined requirements and clear treatment protocols. Minor depression still impairs the mother, but symptoms aren't as severe. There is less research on minor depression, and also not specific protocols in place for it. They are both real, and women suffering from either one should reach out for support!

In order to be considered a major depressive disorder, there must be at least 5 symptoms for at least 2 weeks :

  • Insomnia or hypersomnia

  • Psychomotor agitation or sluggishness

  • Fatigue

  • Changes in appetite

  • Feelings of worthlessness or guilt

  • Decreased concentration

  • Suicidal thoughts

  • Loss of interest in daily activities

Common emotions associated with PPD:

  • Denial

  • Shame

  • Fear

  • Guilt

  • Lack of energy

Risk factors for perinatal depression include:

  • History of postpartum depression with a previous pregnancy

  • History of bipolar disorder or manic-depressive behaviors

  • Family history of postpartum depression

  • Premenstrual or oral contraceptive associated mood changes

  • Obsessive personality

  • Stressful life events

  • Lack of social support

  • Few socioeconomic resources

  • Poor self-esteem

  • Poor coping skills

  • Single, separated, or divorced

  • Significant loss in the last year

  • Previous miscarriage or stillbirth

  • Substance use/abuse

  • History of sexually transmitted infections (STIs)

  • History of physical or sexual assault or abuse

  • History of severe premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD)

  • Metabolic disorders such as hypo- or hyperthyroidism, thyroiditis

  • Complications of pregnancy and delivery

  • Such as preterm or multiple births

  • Infant with congenital anomalies or health problems

Postpartum Psychosis:

Postpartum Psychosis can be extremely frightening for those who experience it and whose loved ones experience it. It often is sudden, and requires immediate medical management. When treated immediately and properly, women can completely recover from this disorder.

Symptom onset is often sudden and unexpected.

  • Symptoms usually occur within 48 hours to 2 weeks after giving birth.

  • The clinical presentation usually progresses rapidly after initial symptoms appear.

Postpartum psychosis differs from postpartum depression by the presence of:

  • Manic features

  • This is the main feature of postpartum psychosis.

  • Delusions

  • Hallucinations - visual, auditory, olfactory

  • May include commands to hurt oneself or the baby

  • Often includes religious themes

  • The risk of suicide is ~5%, and the risk of infanticide is ~4%

  • Confusion and perplexity

  • Mood lability

To read real examples of postpartum psychosis, Postpartum Progress has a detailed list at http://www.postpartumprogress.com/the-symptoms-of-postpartum-psychosis-in-plain-mama-english

Postpartum Anxiety:

Postpartum Anxiety can be present by itself, or also accompany PPD. They are not the same disorder. Postpartum Anxiety can be increased with anti-depressants as well. Please ensure you seek a therapist who is able to distinguish between the two disorders in order to receive the best help for you!

The symptoms of anxiety during pregnancy or postpartum might include:

  • Constant worry.

  • Feeling that something bad is going to happen.

  • Racing thoughts.

  • Disturbances of sleep and appetite.

  • Inability to sit still.

Physical symptoms like dizziness, hot flashes, and nausea.

Postpartum OCD:

Postpartum OCD is an extreme variation of Postpartum Anxiety. Differing from typical OCD (with obsession of hygeine, order, contamination and hoarding), PPOCD typically is an obsession of certain thoughts. Obsessive thoughts can range from accidental harm (fear of SIDS and fear of falling from tall heights) all the way to obsessive thoughts about intentional harm (such as hurting the baby or yourself).

A mother suffering from postpartum OCD may become compulsive due to the obsessions. She may constantly check on the baby for fear of SIDS or constantly research for reassurance that her behavior is normal. She also may be afraid to be left alone with the baby, in fear of acting out on her obsessive thoughts about harming the child. While research shows nearly 80% of mothers do experience negative thoughts about their child or parenting, sufferers from OCD become obsessed with these thoughts.

Paternal Postpartum Depression:

Approximately 10% of men get postpartum depression! To learn more check out http://www.postpartumdads.org/

Resources:

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During a Crisis

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline - 800-273-TALK

Placenta Encapsulation

Women who have encapsulated their placenta report extra energy, less mood swings, better sleep, and quicker healing.

Postpartum Doula Support

Hiring the help of someone who is professional trained to help you get through your day with your new child can help lower your risk for postpartum mood disorders. Whether it is baby blues or full blown major depression, you no longer have to be in survival mode. Get the in-home support you need!

TreeOfHopeFoundation.org

586.372.6120 call or text

info@treeofhopefoundation.org

FREE in-person support meetings in St. Clair Shores, Troy, and Sterling Heights. DIagnosis, referral, or prescription not required. Walk-ins welcome.

Find them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/TreeofHopeFoundation

Dr. Megan Gunnell

fmgunnell@gmail.com

(248)635-5285

16824 Kercheval, Suite 206

Grosse Pointe, MI. 48230

Dr. Gunnell focuses in women's health including postpartum depression, anxiety, and relationship issues.

Dr. Amanda Kopp

Dr.akopp@gmail.com

(248) 296-6579

3910 Telegraph Rd #202

Bloomfield Hills, MI 48302

Dr. Kopp as a primary interest in supporting those with Perinatal Mood and Anxiety Disorders

Wayne, Oakland, & Macomb County Postpartum therapists:

https://mipmdcoalition.org/get-help/mental-health-professionals/region-10-metro-detoit/

MICHIGAN STATE CO-COORDINATOR for PSI: KELLY RYAN, MSW SOUTHEAST MICHIGAN Beaumont Parenting Program 3601 W. 13 Mile Royal Oak, MI 48073 Telephone: 248-898-3234 Email: kryan@beaumont.edu

The Honey Studio

(248) 232-2555

3308 Crooks Road Royal Oak, MI 48073

Offers a multitude of support groups led by Brooke Miller, a licensed psychotherapist.,

They also offer breastfeeding classes, yoga, signing classes, play time, etc.

Find them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/Honey-Studio-172030567102

Nature's Playhouse

www.naturesplayhouse.com

318 W Nine Mile Rd

Ferndale, MI 48220

(248) 955-3219

Offers many support groups, play groups, classes, and a Birth Recovery Support group.

Find them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/Natures-Playhouse-273887115974561

ICAN of Metro Detroit (International Cesarean Awareness Network)

In-person support groups for women who want to prevent a cesarean, have had a cesarean, want to have a VBAC, are looking for more birth information, or need support.

Meetings are held in Royal Oak and Rochester.

Find them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/IcanOfMetroDetroit

Livingston County Birth Circle

In person events can be found on their Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/LIVCOBirthCircle/

PINE REST Mother-Baby Day Treatment Program Grand Rapids The partial hospitalization day treatment program specializes in the treatment of pregnancy and postpartum mood and anxiety disorders, allowing mothers to bring their babies to the daily program. Pine Rest Main Campus 300 68th Street SE Grand Rapids, MI 49548 Toll-free: 800-678-5500 (Calls to this number answered 24-hours-day, 7-days-week) Website: http://www.pinerest.org/mother-baby-postpartum-depression-treatment For more information, contact: Mother and Baby Program Staff (616)258-7509

Women's and Infants Mental Health Program

University of Michigan

4250 Plymouth Rd

Ann Arbor, MI

(734)764-0231

http://www.postpartum.net/

The PSI Warmline is a toll-free telephone number anyone can call to get basic information, support, and resources. PSI provides information, encouragement, and names of resources near you.

http://postpartumprogress.org/

Focusing on maternal mental health, pospartum progress provides peer-to-peer support for those suffering with PPMD or those wanting to know more.

Find them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/PostpartumProgress

Your health insurance company!

Contact your health insurance company to see what therapists are covered by your insurance.

Facebook Support group: Mama Tribe - PPD/PPA/PPOCD Support

A Metro Detroit based support group!

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Want to add your information to this list of resources or know of an excellent one? Please reach out to me at TheGrossePointeDoula@gmail.com and I would be honored to add it!

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